Nice Idea

Karen started off by saying she wanted sacredness for her and her partner.

Well you do and you don’t. The idea sounds good to you, I am sure of that. If you go back a week ago, do you remember that you broke up with him? Do you remember what hurtful words you said? I remember hearing you and it was not sacred. You have to get honest with your self as a whole.

There are parts of you Karen that really might want this but you have to also consider the parts that do not know what this is. The parts of you’re self that does not value sacredness. Keep in mind that if you do not validate both aspects of yourself you are not whole. Maybe a better way to express your desire would be “ A part of me does desire to have a sacred relationship with Tom.” Try saying it out loud.

“A part of me wants a scared relationship with Tom.” Karen says.

Now you can look at both parts of self and realize where you have to do your homework.

It is internal work. Tom is just a place where you can work at loving God. It is a place where you can see how or how not you do love your self. How you treat Tom is how your treat your self. Your ability to know that you are a part of God and so is Tom allows you to act in a way that you would act with God. This is where commitment comes in.

You have to have commitment to love in this way for 24hrs or for 30 years. It really does not matter about the time durations; it is that whatever time you set, that you complete your commitment. In this way you learn how to be involved with sacredness, will power, and God. Not choosing to get angry so easily at each other is a way of acting out your value of sacredness.

You have to get to your feet to quiet the tongue. One who can manage the tongue is one who usually can manage many other aspects of their lives. Your feet are so important.. Or maybe they are not,it is their ability to ground you that is really important. With out ground you can not follow through, you can not hold up to you commitments, and foremost it is very hard to grow. It is like your on a gerbil wheel and your just spinning and spinning.

Thank you for reading, Gary