Jugement

Judgment


When we hold judgment against another.

We are placing that statement at one level towards ourselves.


Try it out: (name of a friend) just can not get her life together!


Now try this one: I can see how (name of the same friend) is putting her life together.


The difference is noticeable. If you did not feel anything just play with it for a few days. Play with the sentence structure so your not lying to your self. It may need to change to something like, I wonder how I could help this friend of mine put her life together?

Stopping judgment is not for the sake of you being a nice guy, it is for the sake of keeping you free of judging self. It supports you being more then what you think you are.

Gary